“Shopingitis”: A New Disease?

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Shoppingitis?

According to the Philippines Star LIFESTYLE, in the Philippines where 3 of the 10 biggest malls in the world are found, shopping is undeniably a national past time. Dubbed “Shoppingitis” this out-of-control shopping malady is a world-wide phenomenon afflicting just about anyone.

The October 2006 issue of the American Journal of Psychiatry reported that at some point in the lives of an estimated 5.8 percent of the US population, shopping will become a source of shame, a cry for help, the cause of job losses and broken relationships, a road to financial ruin. They are “compulsive buyers” - troubled by intrusive impulses to shop, prone to lose track of time while doing so, plagued by post-purchase remorse, guilt and financial woes, and sometimes given up by love ones. And as the drumbeat of the depressing economic indicators accelerates, they are a group coming out of the closet. Wow!

Is it a disorder?

There is little doubt that compulsive shopping can cause severe impairment and distress - two key criteria for formal recognition as a mental disorder. “You don’t want to medicalize normal behavior,” says Eric Hollander, MD, chairman of psychiatry at the Mount Sinai School of Medicine in New York. But a small percentage of consumers, he says, seem to suffer from “a profound deficit” in the ability to resist their impulse to shop, despite negative consequences. For those people, Hollander says, the term disorder “seem to fit.”

Is it a gender thing?

If those seeking help are nay gauge, it presupposes that compulsive shopping is overwhelmingly a female condition. Some 80% of those who came forward, according to the experts, are women. But this doesn’t suggest that men are not just as likely to go on buying binges. Men just don’t come forward for help.

Compulsive buying is not unlike drug addiction where addicts seek a “fix”. Shopping brings a rush of “relief” from pent-up emotions or uncomfortable feelings that usually build up in the hours or days before a shopping expedition. But a wave of disinterest, guilt or remorse quickly followed and the resulting ill feeling builds again and the compulsive shopper feels the need for another shopping fix. The cycle continues.

Is there treatment?

Health authorities, primarily psychotherapists, say a two-pronged attack can break the shopping addiction cycle. Firstly, the advice is to join a group psychotherapy sessions where participants are enjoined to keep journals and shopping lists that track their moods, impulses and household needs. When besiege by shopping urges, patients record their answers to such questions as: Why am I here? How do I feel? Do I need this? What if I wait? How will I pay for it? With such rigorous self- examination experts say breaking the spell won’t be too hard to achieve. They have to understand what the triggers are, what the emotional consequence is, what happens after the bill comes. They also need to think about what their values are and their goals in life.

Secondly, medical and therapy intervention are viewed as essential. Preliminary studies have found that antidepressants that increase the availability of the “neurochemical serotonin” in the brain can ease shopping compulsion. And Naltrexone, a drug that blunts the inebriating effects of alcohol, has shown modest effectiveness in curbing the urge to shop.

Shoppingitis anyone?

Original Article: http://www.philstar.com/Article.aspx?ArticleId=418293&publicationSubCategoryId=80 Author: TYRONE M. REYES, M.D. Updated November 25, 2008 12:00 AM , The Philippine Star, Health and Family

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Beware of this job offer!

Author: User Imagescattered brain (Who am I?)  /  Category: Entertainment, Personal

To all Bloggers/Writers, beware of this job offer (Home-Based Full Time Content Writer) from http://manila.craigslist.com.ph.

I passed the test for the job online I applied few days ago. But unfortunately, I didn’t agree with 8K/month for 10 articles, 250-500 words each day.

You know why? Okay, let’s do a little computation…

If they pay me PHP8K/month, that means they preferred to pay PHP266 per day. So, if I write 10 articles daily, I actually agreeing to sell my work for PHP26 for each article. Very clever job offer, isn’t it?

If I make 10 articles each day from paid bloggings. Let say the minimum is $3 each article, so that would be $30/day. I could earn $900/month!

Well, I think it’s better if I’ll focus and need to work hard to gain more traffic and get some PR on google.

You thought you could fool Filipino writers/bloggers? Shame on you!

And the sad part is, the job advertiser is also a Filipino. No wonder our country can never rise up from poverty.

To all Filipino writers/bloggers out there… will you allow a fellow Filipino to exploit you? I don’t think so…

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Racist act and Humiliating Filipino Workers - a Joke or Insult?

Author: User Imagescattered brain (Who am I?)  /  Category: News and Society, Personal

The Harry and Paul comedy show owned by  British Broadcasting Corp. (BBC) came under fire from the Filipino community recently over a scene depicting a Filipina maid as a lap dancing sex tease.  In the comedy show Harry Enfield orders a Filipina housemaid to dance lewdly to arouse Paul Whitehouse. How’s that again!!!

The comedy skit was shown last Sept 26th which generated outburst among Filipino workers and a diplomatic brouhaha in the UK and in the Philippines. No less than a member of Congress of the Philippines called it an outrage and insult to the Filipino people.

“Sorry the BBC is not under our control”, British Ambassador to the Philippines Peter Beckingham lamely dismissed the incident. What a bummer! Tell that to the marines!

This video posted by PNBKapamilya “Harry & Paul” (BBC) insults Filipino domestic helpers - no ifs, ands or buts about it!

Racism and humiliation happen all over the world.. Not only by British to Filipinos… or British to Americans… Americans to Filipinos.. etc!  Is there a racist born every minute! Not in this day and age when people of every race, color or creed are supposed to be well informed and properly educated and should have learned its lesson from the horrors of Nazism, the Ku Klux Klan and other kinds of racism. Plain and simple, nobody has the right to insult anybody!  Of course if someone wants to be a jerk, there is no stopping him/her. The type that smacks of gutter upbringing and lack of self esteem and honor -  which explain the utter disregard even the total absence of moral values in such a person. How can one justify such insensitivity and disrespect which denigrates the mores, culture and dignity of women, cause disharmony and breeds hatred and discord among peoples of the world.

All forms of racism should be condemned. Racism has no place in today’s societies. In the same manner that “gutter humor” ostensibly disguised as a joke but inexorably depict women of different ethnicity in a bad light has no moral justification may used as an excuse for the faux pas.

Is it an insult or a plain British type of humor as BBC wants us to believe?  What ya’ll think?

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Signs That You’re A Filipino

Author: User Imagescattered brain (Who am I?)  /  Category: News and Society

You might be a Filipino if you have a very good sense of Mañana Habit.

Mañana Habit means putting off things to be done tomorrow. In Manx it is “Traa-dy-Liooar” which means time enough. (Trah the looar) Manx for “time enough”, either an incitement to take things easier, or as an insult for a lazy person. An equivalent of the Spanish “Mañana”, but without the same sense of urgency).. Hmmm.. what a weird word.. never heard before.. Anyhow, I’ve learned something from my luviduds today.. ;)

Here are the lists of Filipino mannerism and personality traits.

  1. -If you have a “barrel man” in your house, you may be filipino…(you know..the wooden man…when you lift up the barrel—-schwing!!!)
  2. -If you wash your clothes by hand, you might be Filipino.
  3. -If you use walis tambo and walis ting-ting, you just might be Filipino.
  4. -If you nail all photographs on your walls in the living room, you’re a Filipino.
  5. -If you have a very good sense of maniana habit, you might be Filipino.
  6. -If you smoke in your house
  7. -If you put up your knee while eating
  8. -If you eat kanin and ulam using your hand
  9. -If you are pakialamero
  10. -If you say Sugarol, babaero at tumador
  11. -If you are chismosa
  12. -If you say Comfort Room instead of Restroom.
  13. -If you say For Take Out instead of To-go.
  14. -If you point w/ your lips, then you might be a Filipino.
  15. -If you say open or close the lights, then you might be a Filipino.

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UK Visa

Author: User Imagescattered brain (Who am I?)  /  Category: Personal, Relationship, Travel and Leisure

Fiancé and I have been together for 2 years now. He proposed to me last Nov. 26, 2007. He has been back and forth here in the Philippines. During his 1st visit (Jan. 2007) we traveled various part of Mindanao (my hometown); on his 2nd visit (Oct. 2007) we traveled together in Macao, China for the 54th Macau Grand Prix.

We decided to apply for a visit visa to visit him and meet the rest of his family and friends as well. He also want me to see the beautiful island of Isle of Man in Great Britain where he lives and where sons and I live when we eventually get married.

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